Sunday, October 3, 2010

Jaya Designs Pre-Holiday Open House November 13!


The weather cools, the social season heats up –
Distinction is essential.

With a beaded bag
A silk embroidered sheath dress
An office party skirt and top set
A necktie just perfect for “business attire”
The gift that sets you apart.
All silk
All handmade
Each one of a kind… just like you.

Exclusively at the Jaya Designs Fall and Pre-Holiday Open House
Saturday, November 13
5:00-8:00 p.m.
17517 Queen Elizabeth Drive, Olney, Maryland 20832
Jayadesigns@verizon.net for more information

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Happy Grandparents' Day


"Grandparents are the footsteps to the future generations." -- Unknown

Photo: Adriana, my mother Margaret Koilpillai and me in India

Thank you to all grandparents, who love our children even more than we do, and who continue to give, nuture and teach. We love you.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Jaya Designs Fall Events Sept 18 and 19 - Sign Up Now!


It’s been a warm and sunny summer – I hope you had plenty of rest and inspiration as we (dare we say it) head into the new season. Jaya Designs can help you kick off a new school season, get your work life into high gear and prepare for holiday parties. Please join me the weekend of September 18 and 19 to see some new clothing choices, check out exciting accessories and become even more dazzling than you already are!

I’m organizing the event a bit differently this time – I’m asking for you to sign up for attendance during one of four timeslots – see below. This will give me the chance to give you personalized attention, for you to ask me questions about the clothing and accessories, and for us to discuss the perfect options for your needs.

Saturday, September 18
6:00 p.m. availability for six people
7:30 p.m. availability for six people

Sunday, September 19
2:00 p.m. availability for six people
3:30 p.m. availability for six people

Please email with your preferred timeslot. I look forward to seeing you then!

Best regards,
Jaya

Jaya Koilpillai Bohlmann
Jaya Designs
India-inspired Fashions
JayaDesigns@verizon.net
www.JayaDesigns.net

Friday, September 3, 2010

Hurricanes and life


Waves crash, horizon blurs, skies gray... Hurricane Earl approaches Maryland, having evacuated North Carolina and other coastal areas on this Labor Day weekend. We're in Ocean City, where the beaches are devoid of swimmers but adventurous folks (or those determined to get their beach getaway regardless of weather) walk along the shoreline. The pools at our Hilton Suites Oceanfront are closed - Adriana and I swam in the indoor pool and then she did crafts organized by the hotel. I'm a bit low on energy - a side effect of the cleansing program I'm in. This includes no cairy at all, no sugar, no animal products of any kind, minimizing wheat and gluten, and emphasizing small amounts of good food eaten at regular intervals (the antithesis of my entire life's diet - I usually eat not often enough and then awful non-food). I am walking and running instead of my hard core 5-miles runs 5x/week and focusing on yoga and stretching. I still walk around a bit lightheaded - I have to keep my protein intake consistent. Adri and I are having a restful day today with the storm. A good chance to heal and cleanse emotionally, too. Waves take away all pain, anger, fear; winds cleanse body, mind and spirit.

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Finding my way... part one


Too much stress, too little sleep, too much travel, too little good food… exercise, once my cure all for stress and imbalance, only fatigued and injured me. I started out this summer in a sorry physical and psychological state. After one particularly grueling business trip, I happened upon inspiration at an airport bookstore… and began what is now a six week journey to balance and reinvigoration. Finding my way back to… me.

I began with what I was ingesting and when… yes, a diet. Not just to lose weight (puffy and bloated, I was miserable with my shape), but to gain so much… energy, focus, happiness, that light in my eye I used to have. I refuse to believe it’s just age or hormones or anything else we can’t control. We are given this gift of our bodies and… with the knowledge of how to care for ourselves for life. If we ignore that knowledge, that’s when we lose our bodies and our health – and for me, our minds along with that.
I’m already a vegetarian , but was doing several things wrong with my eating habits, some of these are lifelong bad habits:
• Drinking coffee first thing in the morning (before eating – although this energized me, it also minimized my morning appetite and in my rush to work out and leave the house, I often did not eat. By midday, I was fatigued and famished).
• Not eating breakfast (see above).
• Not managing my nutrition properly while traveling (it’s easy to go eight or more hours without food when you are in airports and/or on planes that don’t serve meals and what is offered is most often starchy processed snack foods).
• Exercising intensely even while my nutrition needs weren’t being met
There are more - those are the main things.

Here is what I have vowed to change for the next six weeks.
• Eliminate all animal products including eggs and all dairy. I have a history of severe allergies to these foods and so I wanted to see if eliminating them would make me feel better.
• Focus on plant foods and plant-based proteins.
• Avoid yeast – that means
• Drink hot water and eat a small amount of oatmeal and fruit first thing in the morning, before working out.
• Drink coffee around midday, without milk and sugar.
• Eat a midday snack.
• Include protein in all my meals (this meant legumes, nuts, tofu and other soy products for me as a vegetarian, now a vegan)
• Have a salad with protein for lunch.
• Eat a mid afternoon snack that includes protein.
• For dinner, eat vegetables and protein – avoid starches.
• Eat small amounts, just enough to satisfy. I get full fast – often, I keep eating because I’m so fatigued and starving.
• Eat at regular intervals, before I get hungry.
• Exercise moderately rather than intensely. (I’m also recovering from a sore back and right thigh, which has hindered my running in the past few weeks.)
• Soak in Epsom salt baths to ease inflammation due to exercise.
• Start an aggressive cleansing program (more on that next week).
Transformation, from the inside out. I’ll blog about my progress… stay tuned.

Thursday, August 5, 2010

A Season to Transform


We’re in the middle of the long hot summer I crave every year. I hope you are, too. My family and I have been soaking up the sun (safely slathered in sunscreen, of course), swimming in our pool and gardening in our yard (we’ve yielded our own ears of golden corn, round and fragrant cantaloupes, sleek and cooling cucumbers and my herb staples: mint, cilantro and basil).

My goal is to use this heat and the sweet sounds and aromas of summer to calm my mind and body, rid myself of the aches and pains that have been plaguing me (and ruining my running progress) for months now, obliterate fatigue and negativity and leave me refreshed and restored – just in time for a productive autumn, fall fashions and a transformed LIFE.

Starting with my very next blog post, I’ll share my transformation beginning with my diet and health, transforming my thoughts, attitudes, even beliefs; revitalizing my exercise program; focusing on vitamins and other supplements; safeguarding my emotional and mental exposures… and more.

Life is about change, anyway, right? Even if we wanted to, we couldn’t stay completely still. In large and small ways, every day, our bodies, minds, homes, families, work, friends… we’re all either moving toward or away from something. Change can be positive or negative… it’s all in how you choose to perceive it.

Thanks for going along with me on this journey. Yours,
Jaya

Monday, July 5, 2010

Transition and Transformation


Weddings, graduations... summer is the season for these major life milestones. I've been thinking about these - having experienced a large family wedding (my niece) and a smaller scale graduation (my daughter Adriana is now officially a kindergarten graduate). New titles and credentials (Mrs., first grader, B.S,...) attached to our names make us different somehow, don't they? They give us new ways of defining ourselves, of explaining our ambitions and our selves to people who don't know us well... and even those who do. It's interesting, isn't it... these are wholly external additions to our lives, yet they are treated as if we have changed from the inside out.

And maybe we have. Maturity gained through education and growing up; love that transforms and shines through you brilliantly on your wedding day... these are transforming and in that sense, the outside world is right to recognize that these make us different. It's all part of creating your life. Just remember who you are fundamentally, and that no matter what external monikers you adopt, your essence is still the most unique and precious thing you bring to this world.

Happy Summer.

Photo: Adriana (in green dress) in line after receiving her kindergarten diploma from Julia Brown Montessori School in Olney.